There is an overwhelming amount of advice available for the broken hearted lover who is desperately hoping to win their ex back. And most of it is excellent, well intentioned advice.
But there is one common thread that runs through almost every effective, tip, method or strategy. It's the concept of self love. The basic thought ... Read more
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Thinking about how much you need your girlfriend isn't going to help you win her back.
You are only making yourself more miserable, wallowing in self pity, letting that turn into despair, and soon it's downhill into a genuinely desperate and needy state. Not in the least attractive - right? Why do you think you can't live without her? Not sure how your going to manage by yourself? Afraid to be alone? Now I understand how you feel and I'm not meaning to be hard on you, but you've got to get yourself together. Maybe it's time to face up to some realities about yourself if you want to be the type of guy that can attract an ex girlfriend back, or any woman for that matter. Being clingy and needy just aren't qualities that will win you admiration from women. Think about how it plays at the movies, the stereotypical desperate dumpee that gets a few humiliating laughs throughout the show, you don't want to play the role in real life - believe me! If you truly are afraid of being alone, no one else but you can fix that, so even if you were to get your ex girlfriend back, it would only be a temporary bandaid over the fear and you would still be worried about losing her again. So what is the answer here? How about finding yourself instead of needing her? Find out what makes you strong and gets you happy. Now I don't mean to get all mushy on you here, I know talk about self love and self esteem can head some guys into the hills, but we are talking about you having to live with yourself the rest of your life, whether your girlfriend comes back to you or not. Living with fear, whether it's fear of being alone or any other fear for that matter will not make for a fulfilling existence. Time to face those fears, choose some self respect instead of neediness, and let real love surface for your ex instead of thoughts of desperation at losing her. Switch your focus to the things you really love about your ex, and some of the positive reasons why you want to get back together with her and then get SMART about the next moves you should make to succeed in getting back your girlfriend.
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