When your girlfriend up and breaks up with you, usually it's not for nothing. Women may sometimes SEEM a little random and unpredictable, but for the most part they do things for a reason. Chances are, that reason in this case is you...and I'm going to help you find out why and possibly how to fix it and get your life back on track.

There are several things that make a woman want to leave her man, but three in particular tend to come up more often than any others. If she didn't tell you why she broke up with you and you haven't figured it out yourself, I'm going to list off these three main reasons so you can check your situation against any of them and hopefully figure out what you did wrong.

1) The ultimate shatterer of relationships is one you really aught to know better than do...but time and again guys do it anyways. Most women simply will NOT tolerate their guys fooling around with other women. I mean, no durr right? It's a no-brainer...but believe it or not, there are folks who go "what did I do?" when it's quite obvious that you just couldn't keep your pants on.

I suppose I can understand that mistakes do happen, even ones that really SHOULDN'T ever happen...but rest assured that I have little to no sympathy for a person who's screwed up like this. Unfortunately for you if this is your problem, it can be exceedingly difficult to pull things back together in a relationship that's been broken this way. Unfaithfulness is a seriously wounding offense, and it leaves people very hurt and fragile. Take care if you try to make this work.

2) Another thing guys can mess up on is not giving their woman the emotional support that she needs to be getting from her relationship with you. Women are built more on the side of their emotions, and if she doesn't feel as loved as she really desires to be, problems can brew.

If your girlfriend broke up with you for this reason, it's a bit easier to remedy than if you had done the big no-no with another woman. A lot easier, in fact. This is a problem you can address within yourself by paying more attention to the girl, and really showing how much you care about what she has to say. Every girl is a little different, but if you really pay attention to her she usually gives you all the info you need to make her happy.

3) This next one happens fairly often, and I have to say it makes me really sad that it does. Another pretty high-ranked killer of relationships is inactivity and lack of spontaneity that leads the relationship becoming rather boring. This is just so tragic to me, that two people who love each other can get bored and tired of being with one another because nothing exciting ever happens.

There's really no reason to let relationships get this way. There's a whole world of things out there for you two to do, and no love should ever get stale or stagnant. Find things to do, be surprising and unpredictable from time to time. I'm not saying freak out and do really crazy stuff, but do what you need to in order to make your time together as much of an enjoyment as it really should be!

Well, these are just the main things that can help a relationship along towards its end. I'm not saying by any means that this article is the definitive work on relationshipkillers, but after reading this you should probably have at least an idea of where to start pulling things back together. Good luck, man!

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