It has been weeks without your girl. You thought you were better off without her. You dumped her because you thought the grass was greener somewhere else. But now you realize that you miss the little things that she brought to your life; the smell of her just shampooed hair, her unique laugh, and the way she gently scolded you when you drunk-dialed her at five in the morning. So now you want her back. Here are some tips that will get you back into her good graces.
Nobody respects a liar, and your ex-girlfriend is no exception. If you lied throughout your whole relationship, this is your opportunity to come clean with her and admit your wrongs. Telling her the truth about everything, from the girl you were caught with at the coffee shop, to the real reason why you were out until seven in the morning, to any drug or alcohol problems that may be inhibiting you will give her more confidence in accepting you back because she will feel that the slate has been wiped clean.
If you really care about this woman, you'll see the value in being truthful with her in the long run. Remaining honest, even in the toughest of situations, will strengthen your relationship. When she sees that you are laying everything out on the table, she'll be more comfortable with giving you another chance.
Don't pressure your ex-girlfriend to give you an answer on whether she will take you back right away. That is likely to chase her further away. Instead, you should state your case, and then explain to her that you understand if she needs some time to process your request to have her back.
If you pressure her into making a decision right away, or even go so far as to give her an ultimatum, you will most likely push her away rather than bring her closer. Don't be a stalker. Give her time to think about getting back together with you. It may be weeks, or it may be months. How long you are willing to wait depends on how much you really want her.
Once you're back in a situation where you are spending time with your ex-girlfriend, you want to remember that maturity thing. Don't do the same annoying and selfish things you used to do around her. That will only serve to remind her of why you broke up in the first place.
So if you're trying to get your ex-girlfriend back, you've got some growing up to do young man. Let common sense, patience, and truth be your guide. Make sure you treat your ex girlfriend with the love and respect that she deserves. Treat her like a queen and you will do just fine.
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